Sexy Sex Toys For Men

In the past 15 years or so, the sex toy business mostly catered to women when it came to sex toys. Men often got shortchanged and lumped into the “guys only want porn and condoms” category. A few years back there were all of these stories that said something along the lines of “women are involved in 80% of the household purchases.” Those hundreds of stories were possibly created because of this study here: “Women Drive Majority of Consumer Purchases in INC.com.”

However, we have seen a real improvement in the products available for men and couples. The focus was all about making attractive and useful toys with body-safe / vagina-safe materials (finally). Women, being the ones who shopped the most, were the lucky ones that adult toy manufacturers went after initially.  It didn't take long before men started to feel short-changed and manufacturers learned that men didn't just want porn and condoms.

[See our picks for must-have sex toys and lingerie for women]

So let’s talk about what products men are buying and loving these days. I will share the top 3 here, but with a few honorable mentions, below.  It is very exciting that men have so many options again!

Top 3 Sex Toys For Men

1. Fleshlight Original Pink Lady

The original sleeve features a smooth, non-textured 1/2 inch diameter canal designed for men that desire a tighter canal but prefer less intensity than what is offered in our textured masturbation sleeves.

Fleshlight

This toy is sometimes called a stroker, jacker, masturbator, and sometimes a pocket pussy. The Fleshlight brand is the creme de la creme (did not mean to be dirty here) of the stroker style toys on the market. There are hundreds that are a knock-off, but there is a reason this one is always the best seller pretty much everywhere on the planet! 

Men often use this toy alone, but it can be used together, too. Can be a fun visual for couples and some couples (m/f or m/f) also enjoy mutual masturbation with this jacker toy. The Fleshlight can create a very sexy and cool visual which can be fun if you are into naughty pics. 

There is a version of this stroker that is like a “trainer” which can be good for men who have issues with premature ejaculation, it can help men to learn to last longer and can be used by men who like to “edge” out their climax. The various Fleshlights have different internal “liners” that can change the sensation of how the stroker feels on the penis. Our customers always give this Fleshlight 10 out of 5 stars!

2. HydroMax Penis Pump

The Hydromax is the Hydropump for the man who is serious about getting the very best from his pump. I am not a penis owner, but I am a 52-year-old woman and I think it is common knowledge that men somewhat obsess about their penis size. (Some more than others!)  This pump is designed to help men to lengthen and increase the diameter of their penis - their most prized possession. 

hyrdomax-penis-pump

Essentially, this penis pump is like a workout for your dick. The pump, used with water (or not) increases the blood flow to your penis. Hydromax suggests men use it three times a day and only 5 minutes at a time. We all know that erections and maintaining them is all about good blood flow and healthy capillaries and arteries. The better the blood flow, the better the erection. (They call it erection quality when you are talking to a doctor.)

The pump uses suction and a pump-action to increase the suction while the gasket or pad holds the air/suction on the pump. My partner described it as something that “feels good, but not really very sexy.” Like if you were giving your partner oral sex, but only put your mouth on their penis and did not move your mouth, lips, or tongue. Just sort of held it in your mouth. It feels good but would feel better if there were more fun activities to go along with the penis in the mouth feel. Make sense?

You can watch some very helpful FAQ style videos on the hydromax page. And, sort of like my boyfriend said, they are explicit, but not really erotic. You definitely get full-frontal nudity, but that is about all. Educational, but not erotic. 

3. Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager

Hugo is a remote-controlled prostate massager that represents an entirely new way to think of men’s prostate pleasure, whether it is part of coupled or solo play. With two powerful motors in the base and tip, Hugo has a sleek and smooth form that is perfectly formed for bigger, better and even hands-free orgasms.

Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager

Medium-sized for all levels of adventure. Perfect for your first time or being worn during intercourse. When we say medium, we mean like the size of a woman’s thumb - may be slightly thicker than that. When you use a good lube with this Lelo prostate massager, it will slide in anally very easily. (Have your male partner push down/bear down a little bit on the tip of the toy as he inserts it.) 

The vibrator in the toy also gives vibration to the perineum. (Typically referred to as the “taint.) So your male partner gets two areas or vibration! One internally on the prostate gland. Additional vibration on externally, right underneath the ball. You may have noticed that area is very sensitive and can bring a lot of pleasure to whatever you two are doing. (And, if you want to speed things up, just give that area a well-lubricated stroke or some pressure and you will notice it gets him going!) But, I digress. 

Your male partner can also use this alone for masturbation. Did you know men can ejaculate prostatic fluid only with no seminal fluid at all? It’s true. 

When men stimulate their own prostate (or it’s massage by you or this Lelo toy), they can ejaculate clear fluid only. The seminal fluid is what makes ejaculate white. This is just a unique kind of orgasm men can achieve if they want to experiment and test all kinds of various types of pleasure. 

To really increase your pleasure as a couple, your partner can keep this inside of him while you two have sex. You could even possibly hang on to the remote control and have some fun with the speeds and intensity. Might be a fun, sexy adventure for the two of you. 

Easy to clean. Soap and water or you can combine soap and water with a bit of the Lelo Cleaning Spray, which is alcohol and paraben-free. Then store the prostate massager in its satin travel bag and it will be ready to rock the next time you or he wants to play with this elegant, reliable and very intense male toy. (All Lelo products come with a 1-year warranty.

Bonus Sex Toy for Men

Tenga Egg Variety Pack 6-pack stroker set. Super fun stocking stuffer and your kids will never have any idea what they are if they find them in your bedside drawer. Each “egg” in the pack has a unique pattern on the inside to create a variety of sensations. 

Tenga Egg

6 individual phenomenal feelings are provided by the Tenga Egg masturbators. These little cuties are stretchy and suitable for any size penis. Simply unpack, apply lubricant that comes with it, slide over your penis and stretch along your shaft. Tenga eggs can accommodate any size. Each egg features 6 amazing sensations. Great for people who want to experiment with a stroker type product and for a great price. You can also make them an extra special party favor for your kinky parting party guests!

Wait! We're not done!

We have other favorites as well. Check out all our "Must-Have Sex Toys for Him"! 

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